The Conversations
These are not essays and they are not advice. They are observations — named gently, offered without urgency, and meant to be considered slowly.
I’m Not Your Girlfriend
On titles, assumption, and the quiet difference between familiarity and intimacy — especially later in life.
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I Don’t Want to Be Needed
When being needed starts to feel like obligation — and why desire, not dependence, is where intimacy actually begins.
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If It’s Confusing, It’s a No
Confusion once felt like mystery. Like something meaningful just beyond my understanding. That belief cost me years.
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Consistency Is the New Chemistry
What once felt thrilling now feels loud. What once felt magnetic now feels unpredictable.
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Desire, Availability, and Choice
A forthcoming exploration of attraction, discernment, and what changes when attention is no longer mistaken for intimacy.